On Being American

americanTHE WAR ON TERROR IS OVER.

And we lost.

What began on Sept. 11, 2001, ended on Jan. 27, 2017. It ended when the US Government banned million of refugees and legal residents from entering the country out of ignorance and fear.

Not for due cause. Not for being on a watch list. Not for being a member of a terrorist organization.

Just fear. Just the last cowardly act of a country unable to live united anymore, unable to accept “other” anymore. This is what those men – not refugees, but trained militants and martyrs – wanted when they crashed into the World Trade Center and the Pentagon.

They didn’t just want to kill Americans; they wanted us to destroy ourselves. And we obliged. We did more damage to our way of life than Al-Qaeda and ISIS combined.

So what are we to the rest of the world now that we’ve lost? What is “being American?”

  • Being American is being a Christian, though not necessarily one who follows the tenets of Christianity.
  • Being American is being white.
  • Being American is being a woman who is a sex object first and an underpaid worker second.
  • Being American is being in favor of walls between neighbors.
  • Being American is making racial slurs about black people while cheering for black athletes to entertain us.
  • Being American is discriminating against Mexicans while eating tacos and drinking margaritas.

I’m sorry, does this post bother you? Does it make you angry? My apologies, I’m almost done, promise:

  • Being American is lamenting the lack of family values despite your affairs and three divorces.
  • Being American is preventing women from making choices about their bodies but ensuring plenty of choices for people to kill each other.
  • Being American is assigning labels to people so we don’t have to understand them.
  • Being American is creating your own truth when reality doesn’t agree with you.
  • Being American is being against immigration, except the immigrants responsible for making you an American.
  • Being American is hate.

There, that’s enough. I’m sure you get the idea.

Of course I don’t believe any of this and I expect you don’t either. But what I believe or what you believe doesn’t matter anymore.

This is what the world believes or will believe very soon, and there’s little we can do to change this perception.

Because the war on terror is over – and we lost.

It remains to be seen how much more we will lose, how much further we will fall before we hopefully, somehow, someday, rise again.

So let me ask you one more time: Does this post bother you? Does it make you angry?

I hope so. For the sake of my daughter’s future and the future of the United States, I sure fucking hope so.

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Dear PR and Marketing People: Be Activists, not Apologists

FUCK “POST-TRUTH. “

There, that feels better. Plus I’ve always wanted to begin a blog post by swearing, so no matter what you think of the rest of this rant, mission accomplished.

But seriously, fuck “post-truth” and “fake news” and anyone who uses those terms, which I’m sorry to say, includes pretty much everyone in my profession. We public relations and marketing types are great at 1) embracing trends after they happen and 2) coming up with bullshit names for those trends to make it seem like we invented the damn things.

Why does “post-truth” bother me so much? Simple: Using the term legitimizes it and gives it value. Saying we live in a “post-truth” world means we accept that world as a reality that we now must adapt to or work within.

Well screw that. I’m not doing it. It’s not post-truth; it’s ignorance. The truth is not comprised solely of opinions you agree with, no matter what the President-Elect believes.

And it’s not fake news; it’s propaganda. Calling it “news” is misleading and insulting to actual news.

Enough people already think that the definition of fake news reads, “See Public Relations.” Trying to “manage” fake news just makes us look like the disingenuous Spin Doctors we insist we’re not.

This is not about bias. Bias is fine; we are all biased. But denial of verified facts or refusal to learn and expand knowledge is insanity.

Of course swearing and complaining doesn’t fix the problem (though it’s pretty cathartic.) Instead let’s:

  • Stop creating buzzwords. This is about lies designed to fool people – and in some cases incite hate. It’s not a game; don’t treat it like one.
  • Acknowledge that Google is not a person. It doesn’t fact check, it’s doesn’t analyze or empathize. That’s your job.
  • Support real journalism and stop playing into the myth that the public doesn’t care. Fund investigative reporting, call out fakers publicly and urge your clients to take a stand for reality.
  • Flood the world with facts. Overwhelm the liars and post-truthers with real news and stories that matter – stories that are meant to lift people up and not tear them apart.

I know, I can hear you already: What a bunch of pithy Pollyanna bullshit, right? This is just bluster; I’m being provocative to be provocative.

Not entirely untrue. But I don’t care because this matters too much.

This is not the time to give in and create PowerPoint decks on “Post-Truth Media Relations.”

This is the time to fight back. To make a stand. To be an activist, not an apologist. To look beyond our own little PR and marketing world and start focusing on the real one.

News matters. Truth matters.

And they matter now more than ever.

Call it pithy Pollyanna bullshit if you like. But it’s the Truth.

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America 2016: Monsters Under the Bed

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WHEN WE WERE LITTLE THERE WERE MONSTERS UNDER OUR BEDS.

They kept us up at night, our covers pulled tight over our heads and our hearts demanding swift exit from our chests. We never saw the monsters but we felt them and heard them.

They cast shadows over our young lives – but they never hurt us. If anything, our monsters made us stronger.

History is full of monsters, real ones who boldly displayed their horrors. There were Mongols and Nazis, despots and dictators, conquerors and criminals of all kinds. We’ve endured monsters of ignorance and apathy, of shame and selfishness.

Most of these monsters disappeared forever – and those who stayed, well, they hid under the bed. We knew they were there, knew they might one day return, but over time we stopped paying attention.

We moved ahead and our culture progressed. The monsters became little more than silly childish fears that no adult would take seriously.

And besides, the monsters under the bed had never hurt us before. They were under the bed because they had lost. The monsters knew their place.

Slavery had its day but we shoved it under the bed. Racism once reigned but we pushed it under the bed. Discrimination, persecution, isolationism – all stayed under the bed as America and the world marched ever forward.

Once in a while a monster tried to escape. But for a monster to be real you had to believe in it, and so few believed in monsters anymore that the escapes were always short-lived.

We got confident. We became arrogant. We belittled the monsters, made them feel insignificant and weak. We admonished them to their faces and laughed at them behind their backs.

We pretended they didn’t matter anymore.

And that’s when it happened.

That’s when the monsters had had enough.

In 2016 they came out from under the bed – and for the first time in a very long time, some people believed.

That’s all it took.

Racism roamed free. Hate reared its ugly head and roared. Discrimination danced with joyful abandon.

White supremacists weren’t silenced. Lies flowed like an insidious river. And violence – real, hurtful violence against people because of their opinions – was celebrated.

No one stopped them. Too many refused to take them seriously and still expected them to go back under the bed where they belonged.

But the monsters are not going back. And we can’t just put them back, lest we wake up on some new morning and find the monsters loose again.

 

WHEN WE WERE LITTLE THERE WERE MONSTERS UNDER OUR BEDS.

Now the monsters are out. There is nothing we can do to change that.

But that doesn’t mean we can’t defeat them.

Our monsters used to make us stronger, so get stronger. Tear off the covers and hurl your light into the darkness.

Destroy the monsters once and for all – not with violence, but with hope. Not with anger, but with action.

Monsters are always looking for a fight. But there’s one thing they never expect.

Someone to fight back.

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Brand Superheroes: Why Being Real Matters Now More Than Ever

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ALL SUPERHEROES ARE THE SAME.

Their power may differ, their purpose may vary – but all superheroes share an undeniable bond to each other and an unbreakable bond with the public.

Being real.

Superheroes are true to who there are, whether to their strengths (Superman) or to their flaws (Batman.) When Superman says he fights for truth and justice he means it – it’s not an empty campaign promise.

Brand superheroes are no different. You can’t say your purpose is one thing and then do another. You can’t say your power is for good if you use it to do evil. You can’t live your story if your story is built on a lie.

The First Casualty of the Internet is Truth

We live in a world of content. This is not a bad thing – we are arguably the most informed generation in history.

But being informed is not the same as being educated; information is not synonymous with objectivity or truth.

When everything is content, it gets harder to tell the difference between what’s real and what’s fantasy. Without any gatekeepers, the flow of news becomes a Lord of the Flies Island of anarchy.

We need real heroes to change the dynamic and stem the tide of post-truth communication tactics. Brands today have a unique opportunity to cut through the digital morass and connect with audiences on a real emotional level – to live the stories they tell and lift the common discourse. All it takes is a commitment to the following:

  • Be trustworthy
  • Be grateful
  • Be positive
  • Be generous
  • Be humble
  • Be yourself

The Challenge for 2017 and Beyond – Reboot Reality

Author Nicolas Negroponte talked about the “Daily Me,” or the ability of people to customize their digital feeds to the point of excluding all information they didn’t like or agree with – to in effect create their own realities.

Negroponte said this in 1995 – 21 years before the polarizing social media election of 2016. It’s far too easy, as we saw this past election cycle, to create misleading “news” or to replace facts with memes.

To those brands who would take advantage of this new reality, who would gladly cloud well-intentioned minds using all available and legal digital slight of hand, I would just say this – Don’t.

You are better than that. We as a society deserve better than that. We need heroes we can look up to and trust, so don’t let us down.

Find your power, your core brand truth, and make it matter. Embrace your purpose and use it to live your authentic story – and in doing so, connect with your audience in ways beyond purchase or profit.

If there’s anything brand marketers should learn from the recent U.S. election, it’s that people aren’t data. Not everyone wants a high-concept message or has aspirations beyond their local communities and families –most people just want to be understood, and the way we communicate needs to reflect this more practical approach.

Real heroes listen before they speak. They are part of the communities they serve. Polls and big data pipelines are useful but they aren’t conversations – it’s time for brands to go back “into the field” and re-establish points of empathy between brand and customer.

“With great power comes great responsibility,” Peter Parker/Spiderman’s Uncle Ben said. It is the ultimate enduring maxim for great heroes and mere mortals alike.

Please, use your power wisely. Be the brand superhero we need you to be.

Read Part I, Brand Superheroes: What’s Your Origin Story?

Read Part II, Brand Superheroes: Finding Your Power and Purpose

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Brand Superheroes: Finding Your Power and Purpose

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“With great power comes great responsibility.”

Peter Parker’s Uncle Ben

SPIDERMAN IS THE WALL CRAWLER.

Superman is the Man of Steel. The Hulk has extraordinary size and strength; Black Widow is an expert assassin; and Aquaman can, um…well he can talk to fish (yeah, I know what you’re thinking, but it does come in handy sometimes.)

Before you can be a hero, you first need to be super. You need to find that one special something that sets you apart.

Fortunately, you don’t need to be from Krypton or get bitten by a radioactive spider. Every person – and virtually every brand – has a power unique to them. It’s just a matter of finding it.

Your Power or “Brand Truth”

Let’s break down the word “Superhero:”

  • “Super” is about where your “power” resides (also known as your “brand truth”)
  • “Hero” is about your “purpose” and manifesting your power in the world

Your brand’s power or truth is a factual, positive statement. It’s something no one else can say, or at the very least something no one else can say with honest conviction. “We stand for,” “we do this better than anyone,” “we have this” – the statements are direct and definitive.

Your brand may still have struggles or even aspirations for another power; this is normal and expected. But part of being “super” is embracing what you do best and forging ahead no matter what the obstacles or consequences. This is what gives your brand those human qualities that create empathetic connections with audiences.

Google’s “super” is search – despite all the other products it makes, its ability to “organize the world’s information” is what gives Google its power and market dominance.

For outdoor clothing company Patagonia, its “super” is more personal. Founder Yvon Chouinard and his band of climbers and surfers discovered that their simple, minimalist lifestyle could translate into a clothing company that reflected their ethos.

Using Your Power with Purpose

All heroes need a purpose, a “why” that defines their beliefs and drives their actions.

Patagonia’ found its purpose in the environment: “Our mission is to build the best product, cause no unnecessary harm, use business to inspire and implement solutions to the environmental crisis,” says its Web site.

A true purpose like this one goes far beyond a simple “mission statement” – it is the reason you exist in the world. And Patagonia backs up its purpose with action, providing environmental grants and support, encouraging activism for environmental causes and championing fair labor practices.

Your purpose helps define who you are – it’s the DNA that runs through your brand and pushes it forward. It’s determines how you will be remembered and whether you mattered.

Be an “Action” Hero

In the big picture, having a power is less important that what you do with the power you have. Put another way, brand superheroes are “action” heroes.

It’s easy to give speeches or publish “thought leadership” pieces like this one. It’s easy to post carefully crafted corporate positioning statements or write formulaic press releases.

But as Tom Hanks, in his role as manager of an all-female baseball team in A League of Their Own, said to one of his players:

“Baseball is supposed to be hard. If it wasn’t hard, everyone would do it. The hard…is what makes it great.”

Taking action is never easy. Telling stories is far simpler than living the stories you tell.

But that’s what separates the heroes from the mere mortals. Actions – and holding yourself responsible and accountable for those actions – are what turn a life into a legacy.

Then, and only then, will the “hard” of being a brand superhero make you great.

Up Next:

Part III: Brand Superheroes: Living the Stories You Tell

Read Part I, Brand Superheroes: What’s Your Origin Story?

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Brand Superheroes: What’s Your Origin Story?

hero-307036_640IN THE FIRST AVENGERS MOVIE, you see a team of superheroes join together to fight a common enemy. They use their powers to save the world, with little to no regard for their own safety.

But you don’t know why. You don’t know what makes the Avengers The Avengers.

For that you need to see the first Iron Man movie, or read the original comics for each character’s “origin story” – the reasons behind why they are who they are.

The origin story is not new or isolated to superheroes. This idea has been around since time immemorial, from ancient myths to modern novels (and yes, comic books.) It is central to the storytelling “Hero’s Journey” championed by Joseph Campbell and embraced by Hollywood screenwriters.

Brands have origin stories too, but often these stories are distorted by time or mythologized beyond recognition. And while brands champion “storytelling” as a marketing tool, their stories sometimes lack the authenticity necessary to make an honest human connection.

It’s time for that to change. It’s time for brands to embrace their origins and, in doing so, become true superheroes who are driven by purpose and who live the stories they tell.

Three Types of Origin Stories

While every origin story is different, they tend to fall into one of three categories:

  • Trauma
  • Destiny
  • Chance

Trauma is popular in origins of the “anti-hero” or the reluctant crime fighter. Bruce Wayne’s traumatic fall down a bat-infested well, combined with seeing his parents murdered, turned him into Batman. Bruce Banner suffered a very physical trauma from gamma radiation that turned him into the Hulk.

For brands, the “trauma” is rarely that dramatic. Sometimes the trauma is financial or is a product of circumstance; the trauma also might be a market or technological disruption (e.g., the Web giving birth to e-commerce and Amazon.)

  • AirBNB – When founders Brian Chesky and Joe Gebbia had trouble paying their rent, they addressed their “financial trauma” by turning their apartment into a place for temporary lodgers. They built their own site rather than use Craigslist so their listing would be more “personal,” and AirBNB was born
  • Uber – The simple act of hailing a cab turned into a traumatic experience for Uber founders Travis Kalanick and Garrett Camp, when they were stuck in a Paris rainstorm with loads of luggage and no transportation. In solving their trauma, they made getting a ride a lot easier for all of us

Destiny is the origin story most like the traditional Hero’s Journey. A “normal” person is suddenly thrust into an abnormal world or situation –and after some reluctance, the hero accepts his or her calling. Think Luke Skywalker in Star Wars or DC Comics’ Wonder Woman, whose multiple origin stories over the decades involved her being “destined” for greatness and a heroic life.

  • Apple – Destiny is sometimes confused with fate. While the origin of Apple fits both descriptions, co-founder Steve Jobs had the aptitude and vision to do something great as far back as his high school years. By the time he partnered with Steve Wonziak to create a new kind of personal computer, Jobs was well on his way to fulfilling his destiny and changing our culture along with it

Chance is perhaps the most common origin story for both superheroes and brands. Let’s be honest, Peter Parker was just in the wrong place at the wrong time when he got bit by that spider (though it was the chance murder of his uncle that caused Spiderman to use his powers for selfless good.)

Brands, however, are notorious for turning random chance into successful businesses or new categories altogether.

  • Toms – Like many brand origin stories, the Toms story is deeply tied to that of its founder, Blake Mycoskie. A vacation in Argentina, a chance meeting in a café with a charity group collecting shoes for needy children and a desire to make a difference led to Toms and its “buy one, give one” business model

Heroes Without Flaws Aren’t Human

One caution when building your origin story, whether rooted in trauma, destiny or chance: Be careful not to confuse anecdote with narrative. Uber, for example, begins with a memorable anecdote about being stuck in the rain, but there is more to the story than that “aha” (or “uh oh”) moment. There were challenges and doubts and all the various ups and downs that make a superhero complete.

A hero without flaws is not human and therefore not relatable to an audience. Take time to develop an authentic narrative that pulls the audience in and puts them inside your story.

The Origin Story’s Superpower – Empathy

Superheroes don’t need an origin story, they can just be super and leave it at that. The same goes for brands – read pretty much any brand’s “about us” page and it will be all about that brand today, right now, without any nod to the path it took to get there.

But stories without emotion are not stories. They don’t capture our attention or imagination and are easily forgotten.

An origin story’s greatest power is empathy; this is true for superheroes as well as brands. Empathy is what allows us mere mortals to relate on a human level and become emotionally invested.

Marketing is all about empathy – without empathy, a brand is just a logo. Lifeless. Meaningless. Pointless. When there are countless brands bombarding eyeballs every day begging for a sliver of attention, empathy is everything.

Yes, people want to know what brands do, but that’s not enough. People also want to care, they want to understand and believe in a brand’s purpose. They want to know why brands exist and they want to be part of that story.

The journey to becoming a brand superhero begins with embracing your authentic origins. Only then can you find your true superpower and use it to share your purpose with the world.

Up Next:

Part II: Brand Superheroes: Finding Your Power and Purpose 

Part III: Brand Superheroes: Living the Stories You Tell

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The Good Part

FOR NINE MONTHS YOU PREPARED FOR “THE MOMENT.”

white houseThe moment when you would hold your newborn child for the first time. The moment when you would hear her heartbeat and marvel at her innocence.

The moment when an eternity of questions, uncertainties and challenges would be erased with one tiny smile.

Finally the moment arrived.

Now it was time for the good part.

But then you took the baby home and she cried all night. You didn’t sleep for months and diaper changes became as regular as breathing.

This wasn’t the idyllic life you had imagined. Not even close.

Eventually she slept soundly and the crying subsided. She took her first steps.

Now it was going to be okay.

Now it was time for the good part.

But then the wonders of walking turned into the terrible twos and the toddler years. There were illnesses and tantrums, worries and regrets.

No one prepared you for this. No one could.

The good part would have to wait.

Pre-school was going to be the turning point. This was the good part for sure, the beginning of socialization and formal education – the discovery of “self” that would be your child’s greatest adventure.

But there were fears and setbacks. And it didn’t get any better with elementary school or middle school, and definitely not with high school.

There were cool kids and mean girls, awkwardness and anxiety. There was more pressure than you ever had to endure, more danger in the world than you could have ever imagined.

Day after week after month after year you waited. The good part was coming, you told yourself. The good part was just around the corner.

And then, without warning, you are standing in a college dorm on the other side of the country saying goodbye.

Was this it? Was this finally the good part?

Or was the good part the moment you held your newborn child for the first time. The moment you heard her heartbeat and marveled at her innocence.

Was it the moment when the baby cried all night and so did you, because you were now someone’s mom or dad. Was it the sleepless nights and diaper changes when you realized life would never again be this pure, this simple or this perfect.

Could it have been the times when she was sick and you sat with her for hours? Could it have been during the tantrums that started off so seriously but ended with you bursting with laughter?

Did it happen during her school years, when your daughter became her own person and you realized she was stronger, smarter and more determined that you ever were? Was it when she turned that anxiety into resolve and those fears into focus?

I hope so; for your sake I hope all of those things are true.

Don’t wait for the moment when you are standing in a college dorm on the other side of the country saying goodbye.

Don’t wait until the realization hits you with the unforgiving force of a million memories unleashed at once. The realization that it was all the good part. Her entire life.

Every last damn moment of it.

And now the moment has come to let her go – yes, this is the good part, too. In fact, this is the best part of all.

Because she is not really leaving. She won’t really be gone.

She is not moving out.

She is just moving on.

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